Lived modestly despite means to do otherwise

Hello Cristin,

During someone’s 25 years of marriage, they lived modestly. Wife busy with home, children and taking care of his elder mother. Besides them living in a huge 6bed/4bath, they lived quite modestly. They went to great lengths to find sales to buy anything. Husband encouraged all to live minimally and frowned upon any expenditure if it was not a ‘want’. Money was saved for retirement. Wife makes 70K, husband makes 6 times more.

Question: Going for a trial for permanent alimony. Can one say that since they lived modestly during the marriage, the wife knows how to get by in 100K, so alimony will be ($30K/year) to bring the wife’s income to 100K? All children are adults.
Appreciate your thoughts on this.

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